Basically, Philemon is a letter to Philemon (I know, no way!). It's one of a few of Paul's letters that was written to an actual person rather than a group of people. In this letter Paul is currently in prison for his faith, but what's cool about this letter is that it's less teaching and more of a friendly letter asking for help in providing for and loving his friend Onesimus. However, at the end of this letter, he throws in a final request for himself: he needs a place to stay WHEN he gets out of prison.
WHEN?! Wouldn't it make more sense for him to say, "if?" Why make arrangements when there's no guarantee? Why get your hopes up in the off chance that it doesn't happen and you're left disappointed? What is the purpose in this preparation?
Paul prepared because he believed.
"One more thing - please prepare a guest room for me, for I am hoping that God will answer your prayers and let me return to you soon." - Philemon 1:22
We all get to the point in our lives where there is something we are hoping and praying for. Both of those things are good, but it's missing one crucial aspect: belief. Paul believed so much that he started to make arrangements as if it had already happened. Are you living as if God has already come through, or are you sitting in the prison cell, defeated, wondering why your situation isn't any better? Isn't our God strong enough to come through in a second? Why don't we believe it?
Recently, I've really been hoping and praying for something, and often times I do believe it will come to pass, but recently I've seen it faltering and I began to wonder why. As I was thinking about it it hit me: I don't hold on to belief because I'm afraid of the let down. There have been numerous times in my life where I have leaned on people and believed that they would do something on my behalf only to be left embarrassed because they decided they didn't want to come through. And then I realized that I projected this on God.
But God's not like that at all! There are an abundance of verses throughout the Word that refute and demolish this imagination. So why then do we still hold on to it? Why do we torture ourselves when giving it over is so much easier? We don't believe because it requires faith and faith is hard.
The Strong's Concordance, which defines our boring English words into the original Greek and Hebrew words, says this:
"Faith is always received from God and never generated by us."
Faith is hard because it's not something we can muster; it's something we must be given. Now, that's not a get out of jail free card either though, because God has gifted each one of us with it.
"Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don't think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us." - Romans 12:3 NLT (emphasis added)
So here's my challenge to you (and myself if we are being honest): Ask God to renew and strengthen your faith, and start making arrangements for what you've been praying for to come to pass! Get that room ready because you are breaking out of here!
Note: As I was even editing this, I realized how ingrained this was in my head because in the initial section where I'm explaining the context, I switched the "if" with the "when."